I recently joined a few Facebook support groups for people who have had or are considering having gastric sleeve surgery. I’m one of those people who likes to be informed before making a decision…I need to know all the ins and outs, the benefits, the side effects, and most importantly the experiences of others. Every day since then I’ve been inspired by so many people who have taken the brave step to improve their health and to live their best life possible. They make me believe that I can do this. I can lose weight. I can be healthy again. Once such person is Nichole. I was really inspired by her, and asked if she’d share her story.
I’m 32 years old and have battled with my weight my whole life…it’s been a constant up and down on the scales. After have my kids I struggled with PND and weight started piling on faster than ever, however I always told myself I didn’t care how big I was it didn’t matter to me.
The tipping point…I went on an amazing holiday overseas and it was this trip that made me realize how unhappy I was. It made me notice how much my weight was affecting my life, my ability to do things, and to participate. Instead of wanting to go walking and explore the beautiful cities, I opted to stay in our hotel.
When we arrived home, my husband mentioned the idea of surgery and asked if I had considered it. I hadn’t because I was under the view I wouldn’t be supported.
The first step…After many conversations, and lots of research, I decided I want to have gastric sleeve surgery. I went to my GP and got a referral to my surgeon at Greenslopes Private. My first appointment was on 30 September 2014. He went through the pros and cons, and answered the questions I had. I decided that I wanted to proceed with the surgery, and was given an operation date of 23 October 2014…less than 1 month away!
I was advised to call my private health insurer, and let them know my plans. I also made an appointment with the dietitian to talk about the pre-operation diet I would need to go on to reduce the size of my liver ready for surgery.
The next day I rang my private health insurer to get the paperwork rolling. It was at this time I was advised I wasn’t actually covered due to a change in coverage! I burst into tears and rang my hubby who suggested I ring back and fight, as the coverage change happened days before and we had not been advised. I followed his advice and asked for previous calls to be listened to, and requested that my cover be upgraded to cover surgery without having to redo the waiting period. After a stressful 24 hours, my private health insurer decided they would accommodate my request and cover my surgery!
Before surgery…I met with the dietitian, who advised that I would need to complete two weeks of an Optifast VLCD diet. The dietician also provided me with a list of fruit and vegetables I was able to have and the amounts I could eat. The first three days of the Optifast diet was hard. I was starving the whole time! It was the hardest thing I’d ever done. By the third day, it got a lot easier as my stomach had shrunk and I was in Ketosis* 😀. Over the Optifast period, I lost approximately 5-6 kgs (11-13 lbs).
The beginning of the new me…Surgery day arrived and I was first up on the listI arrived at the hospital at 6:30am. My husband stayed with me while I checked in, spoke to the surgeon and anesthetist, and waited to be taken into surgery. At approximately 8:30am, I was taken from my room to theatre, said goodbye to my husband, and the old unhappy sad me.
I remember going into the operating room and that’s it. Next thing I was awake in horrible pain (I’m a sook and don’t have a great pain tolerance). The nurses quickly showed me how to work my self-medicating pain killers and that’s pretty much all I remember that day.
I’m proud of how far I have come. I’m almost at my goal weight and can’t wait for that day to arrive!
Thank you for sharing your story Nichole! I’m sure a lot of us can sympathise with not wanting to participate in certain activities, and being held back by our weight. It’s fantastic to see your progress.
If you’d like to share your story, drop me an email.
*Ketosis is a process whereby your body breaks down fat to use for energy.
I had always dismissed weightloss surgery, despite the fact that several doctors have recommended it to me over the years. The first time it was mentioned was nine years ago. Imagine how different my life could have been if I’d just listened. At the time, my only health issue was my weight and I thought that if I just gave a diet a red hot go, that I could do it myself. Since then I tried every diet known to man. I successfully lost weight, and then successfully put it all back on…and then some.
I recently joined a couple of facebook support groups for people that have sought to improve their health via gastric sleeve surgery. The number of people seeking permanent weightloss solutions is very eye-opening. It’s so easy to be so consumed with your own issues and to feel alone in your struggle. The reality is, you aren’t alone, and everyone’s struggles are very very real. Choosing to have gastric sleeve surgery, or any kind of weightloss surgery for that matter, is usually the last resort and the act of someone who is desperate to regain their health and their life. It is not a decision that is taken lightly, nor the easy way out.
I asked a few friends why they chose gastric sleeve surgery…
The deciding factor for me was the embarrassment of flying for work and having to ask the airline for a spare seat beside me. Just the looks of others as I was walking down the aisle made me want to jump right off the plane. When I got to Malaysia I also didn’t do everything I wanted to because I knew I wouldn’t be able to walk for too long…. Definitely knew it was time to do something. – Michelle A.
I realized that the children I spent the last ten years trying to have, carrying and breastfeeding wouldn’t have me around if I didn’t do something, and that I wanted to see my grandchildren. – Anon
I was very overweight, but had no co-morbidities… that wasn’t going to go on forever. I wanted to live my live, not just survive it. I wanted to continue my adventures with my new husband and not sit back as a spectator wishing I could do that. – Michelle T.
I did it to stop the battle in my head over whether today a would be a good eating day or a bad one….I did it to stop feeling overwhelming regret and guilt on a constant basis. It was never about health or weightloss. It was about the constant self hatred. – Suzy
I was much like Suzi above, it was somewhat about health, but more about each day of self loathing due to 40 years of being obese and trying each day to “diet” without much success. At the age of 67 there is finally a tool that has helped me lose and I feel it is a workable solution for me. – Anon
I did it to save my life. At my heaviest I weighed 139kg. I didn’t stay at that weight for long but took too long losing it. As a result I was an overweight smoker for about 20 years. As a result I developed Diabetes Type II which went undiagnosed for many years. I was finally diagnosed when at 39 yrs of age and 100kg I had a massive heart attack. My body later rejected the 3 stents which had been implanted and I ended up having an emergency quintupple bypass. I developed endometrial cancer and required a radical hysterectomy with removal of 22 lymph nodes. As a result of missing lymph nodes I have developed lymphodema in both feet. As a result of clogged arteries I required an endartectomy where my neck was cut open and the carotid artery cleaned out. I have small blockages in my calves which make walking up an incline impossible and currently I have 3 fractures and 2 dislocations in my right foot and 1 fracture in my left. I now have a charcot right foot which may never regain normal shape. All of this has been a result of having undiagnosed diabetes as an obese smoker. I am 4 days post op, having had my surgery on my 42nd birthday at 101kg. Until my heart attack it was rare for me to have a sick day. Now I have a disability pension and a mobility scooter. I hope through my sleeve surgery to lose the excess weight, have full control of the diabetes and get rid of lots of medications. And I hope I have saved my life. – Melinda
My parents both struggled with their weight, and one week they had 7 doctor/specialist appointments between them. A week later I was told by a doctor that I needed to get my weight under control before I ended up down the same path as my parents. As I have a child with a rare medical condition, I was scared that I wasn’t going to be around in the future to help him and my other two children. I never want to have to tell my children I can’t help them because I’m too sick myself. – Tan
Every single person that chooses weightloss surgery has a very valid reason for doing so, and I can relate to every single one.
So, why am I heading down this path?
I have been overweight, and now morbidly obese, my entire adult life. A couple of years ago my wrist was aching terribly all the time. It was absolutely debilitating, so I sort medical help. I was diagnosed with carpal tunnel syndrome…which can be caused by obesity and diabetes. My doctor sent me for some blood tests to see if there were any other issues. Yep, you guessed it…type 2 diabetes. It was a shock, but not unexpected given my weight and family medical history. When I was first diagnosed, I could manage my diabetes with diet and exercise. I am now on oral medication. Unfortunately my diabetes is progressively getting worse. I was incredibly ill recently and my blood glucose levels sky rocketed into the 20’s, and I was very close to being admitted to hospital. I was so scared! Scared that I would have to be put on insulin, and scared of what will happen to my body if this continues…loss of eye sight, the possibility of losing my feet (just like my grandfather), and dying at an early age. Worst case scenario stuff, but it plagues my mind. The very next appointment I had with my endocrinologist, I asked for a referral for gastric sleeve surgery. I have been thinking about surgery for two years, but it wasn’t until recently that I made up my mind.
I have had friends who have had either the gastric balloon inserted, gastric band surgery or gastric sleeve surgery. I have been watching their progress closely and have decided that gastric sleeve surgery seems like the best fit for me. I needed it to be extreme and the assurance of permanency. I am confident it will work for me, and I am finally in a really good head space to undergo the procedure. From the very first moment I spoke with my surgeon, I felt a sense of calm. I know this is the right step for me.
Have you had weightloss surgery? What lead you to that decision?